It’s never easy to admit to your partner that he’s nowhere near to satisfying you sexually. Not wanting to break his heart, I know women who will pant and cuddle close to their men and tell them that they are the best lovers out there, when in truth they may be burning inside with desire, but the men don’t know that because they have fallen asleep with a ‘pleased puss’ look on their faces.
I’m one of those no nonsense ladies who is not afraid to let my man know when I’m nowhere close to being satisfied.
A few years ago I met up with an old schoolmate and we started dating. Naturally, the conversation soon turned to sex and he would boast about how good he was in the bedroom. Upon hearing this I couldn’t wait to get with him.
When the time came, he started, it felt great, and then in the blink of an eye — I mean less than two minutes — he was lying beside me blowing hard as if he was asthmatic.
I expected him to rise to the occasion next time and make round two better, but unfortunately for me there was no round two as a few minutes later he was fast asleep beside me, snoring loudly as if he had just run several marathons!
Although I was extremely annoyed, I said nothing to him and decided to give him another chance to prove himself worthy.
The next time he came to visit, my neighbours were standing at my gate and he entered my house, chest braced and chin held high.
Again he started, but several seconds into it he started crying out for the Lord and was trembling like a leaf. I thought he had a seizure or a heart attack, so I asked what was wrong, only to be told that he had just reached his peak.
Before I got a chance to tell him that I wouldn’t tolerate this foolishness, he threw his leg across me and fell asleep.
I decided to confront him about the situation as I was dying inside and to make things worse, he was acting as if he was the ‘stamina daddy’. I told him that two minutes was just unacceptable and he could not just dish out what he wanted to give me and expect that I would be satisfied.
He told me that all his ex-lovers had been satisfied and I was just being greedy. He went on to argue that I was not considerate and wanted him to work too hard to please me, even though I wasn’t even doing like other women, and providing him with the blended, natural juices he needed to strengthen his back.
Nowadays he barely stares me in the face when he sees me. I know there are many women with similar stories who are not sexually satisfied, and who refuse to tell their partners out of fear that their spouses might feel hurt. I do suggest that you sit your partner down and give him the talk. Don’t be afraid to tell him that you’re not satisfied. Otherwise, your relationship will be one big disappointment after another.
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