Is your partner satisfying your sexually needs?

By Sandrea

There is an old saying ‘if it isn’t broken then do not fix it. This can so easily be applied to relationship.

Over the last few weeks all that I am hearing is nothing but complains from my friends that their partners are not satisfying them sexually and they are considering cheating as a means of fulfilling their sexual appetite.

Well I am flabbergasted to think that individuals can so flippantly talk about cheating because they believe that their needs are not being met and rather than do something about it they would rather take a counter-productive action such as cheating.

Sexual gratification goes both ways and I do not understand why some women are leaving it up to the men to do all the work.  If your partner is not performing in the bedroom the way that he should then there is no reason why the female cannot tell him that his style needs improving and also show him what you want from him in order to spice up your love life.

Making love with somebody that you care for or love can be a great satisfaction and sometime one partner is more experience than the other, there is nothing to say that you cannot teach your man where to touch you, hold you and caress you in order that you can heighten your sexual pleasures.

So I believe that if you are with your partner and he or she, for that matter, is not performing the way you want them to do then you should:-

Tell your partner

Find a way to involved them so they can participate fully in the experience

Do not cheat – you may get worse than you already have

Dress up in the sexiest negligee that you have

Show him what you want him to do

Get a copy of the Karma Sutra and go over the different position

Add spice to your sexually experience – missionary position, a bit outdated

If you are more experience than he is, then be is teacher.

Give him a sensuous massage

There are tonnes of things  that you can utilise in your relationship to turn up the heat and add zest to a dull love life, and they can be done  inside and outside the bedroom. Just a little ingenuity is all you need to make  sex a memorable experience for your beau. You can go for the traditional striptease, works all the time.  So if he’s not performing the way you want him to turn up the heat and you will soon see how much he appreciate your efforts.

Some people have a  belief the men do not like to be taught how to make love, but this is a myth.  Most modern men are quite eager to please and if you teach him not only will you get the lover that you really need but the sexual activities will be extremely enjoyable.