Holding on to your man

By Sandrea

How do you hold on to your man?  This is an age old question that many women have been asking themselves, and few have come up with the right answers.

There is a belief among, especially young women that the only way to hold on to their husbands or significant other is the need to be clingy.  However that is the wrong way for a woman to go about holding on to their man.

Men are like babies they need to be treated with kid gloves, they need to feel wanted and they need to be cherished.  They like to believe they are in control of all and every situation and you need to make them feel that way.  Women are nurturer and as such we are equipped to care and nurture a man in every way possible.  So to keep your man there are a few things that we women have to do in order to ensure that we can hold on to them without strangling them.

1. Make him feel wanted
2. Make yourself attractive, remembering that was got him in the first place
3. Running him a bath at least once or twice per week
4. Plenty of sex, if he has a lot then he will not have to look outside the home
5. If you are living together make sure he has a nice meal when he come home
6. Never greet him looking like something out of the dustbin
7. Find fun things to do together, just the two of you
8. Do not nag him, men hate women who constantly nagged them

Some of the ideas above may seems draconian and in today’s climate of women independence a great many woman will tend to believe that should they undertakes these actions they are being made to feel as if they are a slave to a man.  However that is not the intention here.

Good men are hard to come by these days and when you find one you have to go the extra mile to ensure that you keep him and to do so there are certain little things that you have to do in order that he does not need to or feel that he has to look at another woman.

If your man feel neglected he will find someone else to fill that void, and as the song said ‘if you think that no other woman will have your man, just throw him out on the street and you will see that some other woman will have your man before you can count one, two three.

One of the most frustrating feelings that a woman can have is the knowledge that some other woman as moved in on her man.  Most of the times other women are allowed to do so because we forget that human beings are fragile and there are certain things.

Just remember that you have to treat people in the manner in which you want to be treated and if you do then he is going to reciprocate.

Having said all of that I do not want any woman to believe that they have to be slaves to any man, what I am saying is that if you want to really keep your man there are little things that you have to do extra in order that you not only keep your man but have a great relationship.