Who say you cannot find true love if you have children?

By Sandrea

I am slightly annoyed at the people who seems to believe that if a women has children then she is suppose to end up on the scrap heap if she is a lone parent. What utter rubbish, single women with children have a lot to offer and any man who would not want to date a women because she has a child or children, for that matter is not a man that I would contemplate dating.

Granted that young people are in a different category all together, I would not expect a 18 year old to date a 30 year old who has one or two children, as he may not have the experience or the ability to function effectively in that relationship, saying that there may be men of that age who could do, so I do not really want to stereo-type anyone. Nevertheless in my opinion, I would not expect such a young man to take on such responsibility

But it makes my blood boil when I hear these 30 – 40 grey tone man slagging single women down talking about the fact that if they have children and the children father’s are not with them means that there must be something wrong with these women. Because a women has children and they may not be with those children’s fathers does not mean she doesn’t want love in her life.

There are a lot of women who have found love irrespective of the fact they have their children and any woman who would disown or neglect their children for the sake of a man cannot be called a good parent.

Although we all want love and affection in our lives our children are our future and there is not a man alive that should take centre stage over the love that one has for one’s offspring.

I would suggest that single women with children should not despair, there are countless men out there that are willing to take on the responsibility of having a constructive relationship with a women and her children.

So, if you meet a man and he want a relationship with you and he is not interesting in your children then show him the door.

TIPS